Yes, folks, the verdict is in, Hubby's Y chromosome is completely NORMAL. All the information is there. No deletions, microdeletions, delete-key deletions. All the DNA is in just the right spot. Everything is in order and should be coding away for sperm production and general 'male-ness'.

What does that mean for us? Pretty much nothing. This still doesn't answer any questions as to why his count is so low. It doesn't tell us why his morphology is in the toilet. We simply now know that the why is not the Y. That's it.
Of course it is good in some ways. At least we know we don't risk passing on any major Y mutations to any future manly babies (if we could be so lucky). But we could still pass on infertility. Who the hell knows. We just don't know, and will never know, the cause of the sparse seed.
It was also good to be able to finally tell my husband something was 'normal'. I think he was glad to hear it. He still wants to wait until 'Spring' to get things going on the IVF front...but at least he's willing to even go towards the IVF front.
We also strangely received another movie today entitled The Business of Baby-Making or something along those lines. I did not put these in the list. I also watched part of the movie, Frozen Angels today. Although he did not watch it with me, he did occassionally make a remark or smart comment from the other room...so I know he's listening.


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I'm glad the Y is normal, it does suck when there are no answers as to why the problem exists in the first place.
I'm glad your DH is listening to movies from the other room and willing to move forward in the Spring.
Three cheers for a victory. I know they seem few and far between...
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I am glad ya'll finally got some "good news" You certainly deserve it! I am glad he is listening to the movies- even if it from the other room. Personally, I know that it gets harder and harder for me every month when we get a BFN or AF and I turn all that anger on my body for denying me the one thing that should be fucking easy. I even start fights with Bobby just cause I feel I am to "blame" since it is "MY fault" we can't get pregnant.And since he is a man and they don't do things like we do- maybe this is your DH's "defensive mechanism". I think a nice winter baby will be great for you!!
hmm....such a relief that the Y chromosome is normal. Even my case of primary subfertility is categorized as unexplained and even though my doctors harps on the just-one-sperm theory, nothing seems to bear fruit. My husband's count is not low, it is erratic....the lowest was 6 million.
Men are strange creatures! But at least he's listening! That's good.
xx
Listening is good. Very very good.
Thinking of you!
xxx
He wants to watch....thats why he is listening and commenting from the other room. Silly goose.
So he's slowly absorbing what's going on. That's good. All progress is good, as are normal test results, even if they leave more questions behind than answers.
Ah, the hacking is genetic! Does that mean I have to stop bitching about it?
Great news! No genetic mutants for you. :)
BTW, my husband is doubly endowed with the HUH and BIDET genes.
I almost choked on my water--love the graph. There is definitely something wrong with you..here's hoping that your sense of humor is genetic, future mama.
Yay! That's good news about the Y. We can't always expect much from our men with regards to watching fertility videos, but at least he was listening from afar. Perhaps he will surprise you and not want to wait until graduation to start the IVF process. Maybe he'll bump it up to say Feb or Mar! Hey, a girl can dream.
Good news about Y. I think the mysterious movies are a good sign about your DH.
Congrats on the Y but sorry you are still left with a WHY.
I think being in nursing I desperately want to be able to FIX something. All this 'not in my control' is just not my bag.
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